On My Personal Experience With Divorce

It's important for me to share my life experiences with you as someone who has healed and grown from my past experiences and wants to help others.

Here is my personal experience with divorce.

NOTE: My parent's story is their own story and I write my own story based off my own healing journey. I believe in love, kindness, and marriage. My experiences with love in my life are separate from my parents and separate from the experiences of others.

My father is one of my top cheerleaders just like my mom. Together, my parents are very invested in seeing their children succeed and "make it ahead". That is the entire theme of their parenting.

When my parents decided to get divorced in college, I was happy for them. I respect my parents for their personal choices, and I do not have any attachment to whether they are together or not. I see their life choices as separate from mine. By then, I also witnessed the toxic narcissist-empath dynamic between my parents.

I am supportive of functional and healthy relationships. I am not supportive of relationships that are unhealthy between two adults.

If you are in a relationship or dating: It takes two accountable, mature, and healed people to form a functional relationship. This is where introspection, personal development, coaching, and therapy can change the direction of person's life from a very toxic situation to an empowering healing experience.

We can change our perspectives and our behaviors -even after childhood and adulthood traumatic events. We can leave dysfunctional situations and surround ourselves with positive, encouraging relationships.

In the dating and relationship world, I hope to inspire more people to take responsibility for their actions and to THINK AHEAD about how your decisions affect others and the children...Are these decisions beneficial to you AND EVERYONE INVOLVED?

Divorce can be a healthy choice when it leads to better happiness and health for those involved.